Since my stepdad passed 3 years ago I have been driving my mother and sister to the grocery store, bank and doctor office. I haven't worked for 5 years because I have Major depression, PTSD, panic disorder, anxiety, constant back pain which limits my walking and standing and other issues.. My mother lives in her own home with my older sister who is developmentally disabled. My sister lacks common sense and has never married or driven a car. So my mom has taken care of my sister all of her life. They are a package deal. When there is a problem my mom tells my sister not to call me. My mother doesn't like that I arrange her pills in a weekly pill pack. I have had groceries delivered to my mom and sister and then I pay for it. I have my own groceries delivered to my house. My husband cooks dinner for both of us. Last night my mom went to the ER, this is not the first time but my sister called me at 3 AM to say mom had a nose bleed, clots, etc. The ambulance came and my mom picks her nose and it bleeds because she is on warfarin. I have my own doctor's appointments and then arrange my mother's appointments. My mother refused to go and look at an Assisted Living facility that would take both of them. My husband and I can no longer support my mom and sister. My mother has saved all her life and she has 5 times the amount of money that my husband and I have. I get so angry when my mom says she is broke. I do get very angry as my sister has money as well. She has worked as a sacker at a grocery store for years and has saved every penny and my mom and stepdad has always supported her. My sister understands money and is incredibly tight and so is my mom. They live a long way from me but they would rather I use my car, my gas. I go nowhere except to my doctor's appointments and my mothers. My mom's doctor believes she has early onset dementia but her doctor does not know my problems. I called her doctor today to tell her about mom and I missed their call. My mom needs someone to come to the house (which will cost money) or go into an Assisted Living. (more money). I've discussed this with her and mom said she wants to be with her things and the doctor is crazy. Should I call Adult Protective Services on my mom? Oh it hurts for my mom to walk. I just can't do this anymore. My doctor is changing my meds because they are not working any more. I thought my mom would move closer to me after my stepdad died and I should have known better. Any advice for me??