My M-I-L recently was diagnosed with late stage cancer and has moved in with us to be closer to treatment.
Problem is, I do not like the woman, . There are deep rooted issues as well as she is just selfish and has a very negative attitude about everything (so contagious). She is eternally ungrateful. This is why I stopped visiting her ten years ago; in the last 10 years I have seen her only a handful of times.
Now that she is living with us, she expects to be waited on, even though she is not weak or frail, yet. She is ever present and disrespectful. I have asked for alone time, but she interrupts for the smallest reason. It has gotten to the point where when it is time to come home from work I get physically ill.
I know my husband needs my support, but it is so hard to be there. I have considered moving out of the house and renting a room just to get away.
I can't discuss my feelings with my husband because he gets upset that I don't like his mom and feels like I am badmouthing her (maybe I am?).