My mom can hold her urine for approx 2 or 3 hours depending on how much liquid she has had. What are some pull up and diapering methods that active families use when they take their incontinent moms out? My mom doesn't feel herself having to pee while she is sitting and will wet herself. But when she gets up, she can feel herself pee. The goal is to have a schedule but that is not perfect yet or even close, so I more or less judge by her liquid intake which sometimes results in dry pads and sometimes they are wet and I have to change them. I use Tena pull ups and then I layer them with two hour glass pads on top of the pull up. But I leave the strip of paper that covers the sticky tape so it does not ruin the diaper below. But sometimes the pee rolls out the sides and her pants get wet. 90% of the time we are good. SO I should not complain. I am just wondering what else could be out there as far as other methods? I just bought a box of diaper doubler lining for babies hoping it might make a regular pull up more absorbent for night time since my mom does not hold it during the night or wakes up anymore to pee.