I have been a carer for over four years for both my parents and every time a meeting is held my siblings end up fighting, blaming each other and pointing the finger at each other. I have recently indicated that I have found things very stressful and told my siblings this and they have now called a family meeting to ask what it is I 'want' which makes me feel that they will end up dictating to me that things are okay and that I am just been 'dramatic'. I have often been told that because I stepped up into this role that 'its your job, thats what you signed up for' and now when I try to bring up anything up I find I am ignored. So with this meeting coming up I decided that I need a plan to avoid things going pear-shaped. Any advise of ho to approach things?