My (75) Mother made the decision to have her own terminally ill daughter move in with her a year ago and to become her daughters main caregiver. Her family knew that Mom was not at all prepared to take on this role as she herself needs assistance --- but Mom refused to listen to us and felt we were ‘un-loving’ instead of ‘smart’ and moved daughter into spare room and her home became a 24/7 medical arena. Now a year has passed and Mom continues drowning and being more depressed than ever. I want my Mother to get her OWN help and address her OWN needs, but she gets mad at me every time I inquire about her addressing her own depression and perhaps get counseling or join a support group and getting her to a better place. I am ANGRY at my mother for not taking care of her own needs, and for not being ‘open’ to getting help. But do I have the right to be angry?