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There are many different products on the market, some less expensive than Depends; some Medicare plans pay for incontinence underwear (mine does). Managing incontinence in an adult can be a difficult task. Frankly, incontinence underwear is not expected to be worn around the clock. The perineal skin needs frequent cleansing with appropriate wipes or simply a warm wash cloth with mild soap. After cleansing the area use a hair dryer on low heat to completely dry the area out. Keep the underwear off after cleaning, let him sit on incontinence pad, which can be removed and washed. Also, if he is getting chafed, do not fasten the brief around his legs, simply leave if folded open underneath him. If skin is left moist it will begin to break down, keep a rash, or even get an infected wound which can lead to sepsis; also constant wetness increases bacterial growth with leads to UTIs. Please try giving your Dad a break from wearing underwear 24 hours a day. Let his skin breathe and stay dry after cleansing. Also, use a barrier cream with zinc oxide on skin, may need stronger antifungal med if chafing is from fungus.
There are washable incontinence briefs for men. These probably would be less of an irritation to his skin. The down side is it will result in more laundry. (I suppose the up side would be that in the long run they are more cost effective)
If it is urinary incontinence at this point there are pads for men that can be place in underwear. Not going to help if it is bowel incontinence as well.
Disposable incontinence briefs for men that are specifically fragrance-free, hypoallergenic, and breathable for sensitive skin and maximum comfort:
Because (Men’s Incontinence Briefs & Pull-Ups) Highlights: Latex-free, fragrance-free, paraben-free, hypoallergenic, and dermatologist-tested. Made in the USA.
Always Discreet Sensitive Skin Underwear Highlights: Dermatologist-tested, free from fragrances, parabens, and latex. Tailored for sensitive skin while offering absorbent protection and odor control.
Veeda Men’s Natural Incontinence Underwear Highlights: Hypoallergenic, chlorine-free, lotion-free, fragrance-free, dye-free, and made with plant-based, wicking fabric plus green tea extract. Excellent moisture-wicking and breathable design, shown to soothe and protect the skin.
Carewell Incontinence Underwear (Heavy & Overnight Fit) Highlights: Ultra-soft, comfortable, hypoallergenic fabric with anti-odor technology for up to 8-hour protection.
TENA ProSkin Stretch Ultra Briefs Highlights: Earliest “ConfioAir” 100% breathable air technology, plus their InstaDri Skin-Caring System to pull moisture away from the skin. Great for long-duration wear with ventilation to support skin health.
*** If changing his brief product doesn't resolve the rash, please consider there are other common causes of rashes with Incontinence Products:
1. Prolonged Moisture Exposure Urine and sweat trapped against the skin create a warm, damp environment that weakens the skin barrier. This can lead to diaper dermatitis (similar to a baby’s diaper rash).
2. Friction & Chafing Frequent movement while wearing briefs can rub the skin, especially at the thighs, groin, or buttocks. Constant rubbing + dampness = irritation and red, raw patches.
3. Chemical Irritation Some people develop sensitivity to the fragrance or absorbent gels in certain products or harsh cleaning wipes or soaps used during changes. This can cause allergic contact dermatitis (red, itchy rash).
4. Bacterial or Fungal Infection Candida (yeast) thrives in warm, moist folds of skin. A fungal rash often looks beefy red with sharp borders or satellite spots. Bacterial infections may also develop in skin that stays damp and broken down.
5. Underlying Skin Fragility Older adults often have thinner, more fragile skin that breaks down more easily, especially if they already have conditions like eczema, psoriasis, or diabetes.
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APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
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These probably would be less of an irritation to his skin.
The down side is it will result in more laundry. (I suppose the up side would be that in the long run they are more cost effective)
If it is urinary incontinence at this point there are pads for men that can be place in underwear. Not going to help if it is bowel incontinence as well.
Because (Men’s Incontinence Briefs & Pull-Ups)
Highlights: Latex-free, fragrance-free, paraben-free, hypoallergenic, and dermatologist-tested. Made in the USA.
Always Discreet Sensitive Skin Underwear
Highlights: Dermatologist-tested, free from fragrances, parabens, and latex.
Tailored for sensitive skin while offering absorbent protection and odor control.
Veeda Men’s Natural Incontinence Underwear
Highlights: Hypoallergenic, chlorine-free, lotion-free, fragrance-free, dye-free, and made with plant-based, wicking fabric plus green tea extract. Excellent moisture-wicking and breathable design, shown to soothe and protect the skin.
Carewell Incontinence Underwear (Heavy & Overnight Fit)
Highlights: Ultra-soft, comfortable, hypoallergenic fabric with anti-odor technology for up to 8-hour protection.
TENA ProSkin Stretch Ultra Briefs
Highlights: Earliest “ConfioAir” 100% breathable air technology, plus their InstaDri Skin-Caring System to pull moisture away from the skin. Great for long-duration wear with ventilation to support skin health.
***
If changing his brief product doesn't resolve the rash, please consider there are other common causes of rashes with Incontinence Products:
1. Prolonged Moisture Exposure
Urine and sweat trapped against the skin create a warm, damp environment that weakens the skin barrier. This can lead to diaper dermatitis (similar to a baby’s diaper rash).
2. Friction & Chafing
Frequent movement while wearing briefs can rub the skin, especially at the thighs, groin, or buttocks. Constant rubbing + dampness = irritation and red, raw patches.
3. Chemical Irritation
Some people develop sensitivity to the fragrance or absorbent gels in certain products or harsh cleaning wipes or soaps used during changes. This can cause allergic contact dermatitis (red, itchy rash).
4. Bacterial or Fungal Infection
Candida (yeast) thrives in warm, moist folds of skin. A fungal rash often looks beefy red with sharp borders or satellite spots. Bacterial infections may also develop in skin that stays damp and broken down.
5. Underlying Skin Fragility
Older adults often have thinner, more fragile skin that breaks down more easily, especially if they already have conditions like eczema, psoriasis, or diabetes.
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