My mom has now been in the NH since January. She was put under hospice care recently. She has really never been sweet,but she has recently become downright hard to get along with. Thinks people steal from her, tries to kill her as of now 2 of the housekeepers are not allowed in her room and she gets furious when she sees them in the hallway. They increased her ativan and are putting her on depakote. I still go see her Monday - Friday. I am now taking xanax .05 before I go in. Any thoughts on depakote...what I have read on the www is kind of scary. She is not going to give up easily...and she had started hiding her ativan so the nursing staff have to see her take it now. She is having to take morphine for her chest pain because nitro doesn't work anymore. She is either in her wheelchair or bed.she can use her walker to go to the bathroom right now. She still gets out some but is so paranoid it isn't pleasant.