He is getting into a different stage now because he is having trouble going to the bathroom and knowing what to do at times. Last Tuesday night he did the same thing. I called his doctor, they said take him to the hospital and check to see if he has had a mini stroke or UTI.. I did and he was fine. He told them he was just being mean. He was mean and was scaring me last Tuesday, so I don't want to push him. Tonight when I tried to give it to him he started the hatefulness and I feel it. I hate this. I don't know how long I can deal with this. Last Tuesday he hit at me. My husband is a big man and very strong. I am his rock but I don't know about all this dementia stuff.