I mean he does it in his pants 99% of the time now... and then leaves it sitting in the floor or bathroom or smeared all over and then hollers at me from the other room. "there's poop in the (insert area here)". So I started making him clean it with me. I know it tires him out but it tires me out too and its 2 and 3 times a day NEVER in the toilet. So does it make sense he's just F@#%ing with me, his way of establishing some sort of payback or control? Is this a dementia thing or an attention thing or what? Or perhaps I'm over reacting? I don't think I am but its getting OLD fast.