She has not been clinically diagnosed with dementia, she seems to had blocked her memory since the passing of my father. But when i mentioned she had her own home, she started asking details, the thing is that while she lived with my abusive sister, my sister added her name to mom's deed and started renting mom's home. She collects rent & thinks I don't know this. Now I have my mom & my DS brother living with me, now my mom keeps telling me on a daily basis to sale the home & use the funds for my caregiving of her & my brother. If I did this I am afraid her medicaid, medicare & SSI benefits will be compromised. Has anyone ever gone through something similar & what would be the outcome? I have other siblings who have had it bad financially & would be mad if I did sale, been that I have no need financially they would be outraged. I informed them that Mom & brother are now living with me & not one of them has been here to assist me with their support, I brought them out severely malnourished, abused & exploited, my husband has been wonderful buying them all their clothing, feeding them & raising up their morale after 7 years of captivity in my alcoholic sister home.