My dad fell at Thanksgiving 2012 and broke his coccyx, ribs, and compression fractur of the thoracic spine. He went to the hospital for a week, and then he went to a skilled nursing facility for 2 month's. Where he lost 30 pounds. On Valentines Day and also my husbands birthday we took him out of there. We were afraid to take him out of there but we were more afraid to leave him there. The next night the angry outburst and cussing started. We had worked our selfs to death day and night cleaning his filthy house that was full of rat and dog feces. Moved bedroom furniture from upper level to lower level, installed large handicap bars everywhere so he could function safely at home, and did so much more. I could go on and on. I calle adult protection services because he wouldn't let us back in the home. He called the police and they were no help at all. They up held his decision even though he couldn't walk!! We live next door so we had to go home. Well, over the weekend we resolved the hateful out burst for the time being. Adult protective services came ot to dad's house and found him in a clean environment. They cotacted me later and said i needed to get power of attorney NOW, because it wouldn't be long before i woudn't be able to. My dad wouldn't do this because he thinks every body is going to take all his stuff. Which all his stuff is broken down junk! He has $14,000 in the bank and most of that i was going to use for his funeral. He insist he has paid for his funeral but he has not. He has the plot and head stone and thats all! He insist he has a insurance policy too. He told the bank he took me off of the policy, while he was up at the bank taking my name off his checking account. He doesn't have an insurance policy. To have one you have to make insurance premium payments. Which have never came out of his checking account. Anyway, I could go on and on. I'm so embarrssed about all the bad things he is telling to people all over town. In addition i'm scared someone might believe all his lies. But i don't know what to do about it. I have a feeling whatever i have to do is going to be very unpleasant , and hurtful. But I have to protect myself. What do I do?