Does anyone have advice on dealing with Dementia when your loved one is sexually aggressive towards you?

Premarin is an estrogen+progesterone patch or oral pill, but usually never given to males. However, I guess in my nursing practice I missed that one! Sexually aggressiveness is based on hormones and the imbalance of neurotransmitters in the brain. Sexual fantasies could happen to both sexes, but it will change given time. Just lock your doors females from an aggressive father and mention these behaviors to his doctor. There is always a "quiet down" pill.

I recently posted to the discussion section about my father's inappropriate sexual acting out. I empathize with your predicament. In my father's case, he is physically frail, so I am not physically endangered or afraid, but your situation sounds worse.

A geriatric psychiatrist prescribed Lupron depot injections for my father. These decrease testosterone. In my father's case, they were only mildly effective and we discontinued them after three monthly injections, but it might be worth asking his doctor about. The advantage of Lupron over drugs such as Seroquel is that it does not cause sedation nor increase the potential for falls, although of course it has its own side effects, as do all drugs.

Seroquel works wonders for my husbands behavior. Thank God.

Be certain he takes the meds ordered from doctors
Document behaviour changes
Take steps to protect yourself

Remember he is not "himself"
Create a safety plan for both of you when exiting the room & /or house

Oh sweetie, your dad would be beyond humiliated and remorseful if he knew how he was behaving. Unfortunately you will have to limit his access to you and pretty much any female he has contact with. The brakes on his behavior are gone. My mom actually made suggestive remarks to her nephew before we realized what was going on. Your dad doesn't want this for you. Take whatever steps you feel necessary to keep everyone safe.

I am still trying to get over waking up in the middle of the night with my naked father standing over me and telling me he wanted to ____ my ____. I pushed a chair under the doorknob for the rest of the week so at least I wasn't surprised. He also groped me a couple of times and tells me about all his sexual escapades in graphic detail even though I tell him to stop. At a time when I want to find compassion for my ailing father, between the sexual inappropriateness, the meanness and the rage, I want to stay as far from him as possible. When I told my mother what was going on she either laughs or says, "that didn't happen."