My mother in law is 87 and suffers from dementia, agitation, bipolar, anxiety and paranoia. On a good day before she started getting worse we went to see a lawyer and my wife became POA both medically and financially now because we were 2 days late in getting her laundry to her, she became mad with my wife and changed her sister who is also in her 80's to become her POA, my mother in laws sister is not capable of handling her bills on time, etc. is also not all there in her head, so now what do we do?? We want to maintain her bills and keep them paid in a timely manner, she is in a nursing home now and got mad at me just over not getting her laundry to her. What do I do? I thought a POA had to be created by a lawyer?? which in my case it was - - State of Ohio - That is how we legally did it? Also I am now trustee over her estate, etc. when my mother in law passes away does any of that supersede the POA? All of this is driving my wife and I crazy and many of restless nights. The rest of the family is only out to get her money once she passes away, we are doing all of the work. What can we do or guide us in the right direction please???