Our mother is 79 years she is confined in a wheelchair. She attend day care during the day. We each have her four months which has work out ok until now it's a sister time to get mom and she states she can't take mom due to her health. Mom has parkinson and real bad arthritis, mild dementia. We bathe and do all her grooming. She can feed herself somewhat. We believe she is trying to get out of taking her turn with mom. I personally don't want to place her in nursing home right now. I just need some guidance on how to make the correct decision for mom.