My mom is 73 and just now has been diagnosed with BPD, I asked years ago about this with her mental illness and everyone said no way. She can be so mean at times and says some not so nice things. She does not have dementia that I know up, drs said no but then they said she wasn't crazy either and well I know that is wrong. How do you deal with a person with this. She's in a nursing home and I was told now that I might have to move her once again because of her outbursts. what do I do. this cant keep going on.