During the waking hours everything is OK. Mom will go, let me know, we do a changing and everything is relatively normal.
Mom usually turns in for the night between 9-10 pm most evenings, then spends a few hours tossing and turning before falling asleep. I usually let her sleep until 9am, later if she's especially tired. The problem I'm facing right now is with the nighttime urination. She goes a LOT during the night. Despite the Depends, she will be totally soaked by morning, I mean from her knees to the middle of her back. Her blankets, the absorbent pads, the sheets, everything is literally drenched. I tried using two adult diapers on her for bedtime, it worked at first but now it's no different than using one. This alone is accounting for a solid 50% of the workload. The cleaning, the laundry, it's a real mess every day.
She doesn't drink a whole lot of liquids after dinner, maybe a cup of no-caffeine tea or juice and an eight oz. cup of water for the overnight. Does anyone have any helpful advice to offer here?