ok my husband, 2 year old and i live with my grandmother in law, im her primary caretaker. anyways, since my daughter was born, gmil is jealous. she lost her husband 4 months after my babys birth. she is just clearly jealous that my girl gets all our attention, if she is sick, gmil will compare herself and go on about how terrible she feels. she does this with everyone though. but she will try to get me to stand and talk to her forever while im just trying to bring my baby her food, but gets mad when i say" hang in, let me give lithia her dinner" and she storms off. but i think she is jealous of me. like, she will be sexual towards my husband- her grandson! she will sit in his lap and when he gets upset she says " well you let her do it" like, im his wife! she will say things like " well if i was a bit younger i would go for you" or she will just blantantly walk around naked and when we get upset she says " well you let the baby do it" (we are potty training right now). its terrible. she will come up to him in his sleep and rub his legs and stuff. Or if he needs to get dressed she will want to see him naked... its disgusting. and she absolutely hates me and is so cruel and awful to me. help!! we suspect she has dementia, but her doctor wont listen to us. by the way, shes very narcissistic, controlling, manipulative, she lies about literally everything, and she talks so much crap to other people about us, that nobody takes us seriously. she plays the victim even though shes the mean one and we are super nice and patient
and helpful with her!