I am 48 years old. I have a severe mental illlness. My mother has dementia and heart failure. She is in a nursing home near my home. Two family members are angry because my mother is not moving to the shore near them so they are deciding to not visit at all. It is left on me and my sister in law to get to visit her everday. I was in hospitals for two months last year and am just rebuilding my life. Stress cause me to relapss My family does not believe I can't do this. I am feeling guilty for not going. I have given so much of my life to my mom, as she has had so many operations, strokes, and depression and anxiety since I am a child. My health is on this. How do I get family to help plus 14 nieces and nephews.? Help.