I am an only child and my mom has passed away. My dad is in a nursing home and is becoming more and more difficult every day. He won't eat the meals served, but wants me to deliver him meals daily. I do his laundry, and if his favourite pair of pants are in the laundry for more than a couple days and not delivered back to him, he is on the phone demanding I bring his laundry. When we go visit, all he does is complain that his bed isn't being made properly, he doesn't like the food, the staff won't do anything he asks, and it goes on and on. I can't remember the last time he asked how we were doing or what was new with us. It's a constant stream of complaints and never any appreciation for what we do for him. He is on a very limited income and gets very angry when I won't just give him large amounts of cash whenever he asks for it, because he spends it at the gift shop in his facility. We make sure his care is paid for, that he can go on outings a couple times a month, and gets the basic needs met as far as personal items, haircuts, etc. I am just so tired of being treated like a servant. I am depressed that I can't just be his daughter and enjoy his company without taking verbal stabs and abuse. I have tried to walk away and take a break, but the guilt is overwhelming. What do I do?