My mom is what I call an organized hoarder. She has lovely things but far too much. Two of the rooms of her home is dedicated to her dolls and related items. The rest of the home is packed with furniture and accessories. All of her drawers are filled with items she will never wear again and has tons of jewelry she’ll never wear. She has 40 wedding gowns in her basement that she insists on keeping.....and it goes on from there. She is in early stages of dementia, and while she has always been difficult she can now be irrational and mean. My dad is getting worn out and would like to move to an AL facility. She refuses. Plus my younger brother and his family are her favorites and she is not shy about letting my sister and I know. When approached about letting some things go....she says they are for my brother, but he doesn’t want it, so it stays. I’m at wits end. Any suggestions would be helpful.. thank you!