I am trying to get my mother's address changed to mine. She currently lives in assisted living. I would like to get her Medicare statements and her as W4 sent to my address. They want me to become a payee representative which involves paperwork that I do not want to do. I canceled an appointment to meet with them. What's the chance that they will not keep info that I already gave them, mainly my mom's maiden name and the place that she is living and I think that SSA office called the the assisted living place to verifying that she cannot pay her bills? I am thinking I would go online with her to do the change of address thing. Any advice out there.