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Maybe it is time to ask that sibling directly why aren't they helping out and to be honest with their answers.
As others have said, it's best to be specific about how your elderly parent could use your sibling's help. If you don't make progress with that, move to plan B, which in my case means forgetting the siblings and finding outside help, either volunteer or paid. It's taken me a long time to get to this stage, but now that I am here, I feel liberated from the negativity and resentment that surrounded my constant longing for my siblings to do more. Of course, I still have my moments, but overall I try to ditch the negativity as much as I can and just focus on what it is I have to do and need to do to keep juggling.
Some siblings just don't "get it" or don't want to "get it". Some just don't have it together enough in their own lives and should not be caregivers, period. Some siblings may not make good caregivers even if they were willing to give it a try.
For example, I might say, "Since you get off work early on Fridays, would you pick up dinner and bring it for mom that day? Just be here with her dinner by 5:00." They can agree or refuse.
Or you might say, "I want to set up a time just for you and mom every other weekend for 4 hours. What time would you like to come and stay with her on that day? I've arranged to get my shopping done during that time so I won't be here." These are just examples. Pick what you need and ask specifically. If they give an excuse they can't do one thing, then move to plan B.
If they keep declining your suggestions, then ask outright, "Then what can you do? Mom deserves your input in her life and you make the decision of how you are going to do it." You can say it in a nice way of course.
Some people are just dense and don't get it. Others are lazy. I don't have the patience for them.