I have to move in with her. We just built a house. There is no other family. She is still active, etc., but she says things and starts fights but if you react ot disagree she says you are abusive or tells you that you are damaged. I love her but I honestly dont like her. I feel duty bound to take care of her as things change, but how do I do it without losing it. Or losing myself. Always with the slick digs..She baits you, and then she is the victim. Ugh!!