Hi, my mom has had several mental issues going on since I can remember. She is a hoarder, has anxiety, ocd, and I think she may be a hypocrite. Our roles have been reversed for years, and I feel burned out. I am codependent. I have tried my best to please her and help her in every way possible. Because I finally set one boundary, she told a nurse that I was mean like her abusive mother, and she even included me in the same category. This was a lie, and it broke my heart. I know I did my best to help her. How do I deal with emotional pain and guilt over trying to distance myself from this very unhealthy, one-sided, manipulative, relationship? I am all she has. I feel sick inside.