My father passed away in 2000 and My father didnt tell me till he had been gone for 3 Months. They said they didnt know where I was or how to reach me. This is not true because I have had the same email address for over 32 yrs. To this day I find it hard to talk to them without being hurt and it hurts really hard to get over my grief of his loss. When I try to tell them How I feel all they say is get over it, grow up, that is the past. How do I find a way for forgive them and stop grieving for my father?