My mother is in the housing of the elderly and is 85. My Dad is in a nursing home and is 90. My mother expects me to do everything as I am her daughter. I work a full time job have a husband, two children and two grandchildren and I did have a life until 2 years ago when I started caring for them. I am at my wits end. She refuses to go with anyone else, wants everything her way or she complains. I was diagnosed with breast cancer last year and all I got from her was I am sorry, no hug not nothing. It is all about her.
What can I do?