My husband became violent and also would wonder the house all night having imagining that people were in the house. He continued to drive which had me and my family terrified he would have a fatal accident. Most recently he is in a wonderful memory care facility, it is small, personal, and he receives constant attention and care. Me heartbreak is he keeps asking when can he come home and I do not know how to answer other than saying "you need care and they care for you here...etc" He has demonstrated anger at me and my daughter yet the caregivers say he is fine after we leave. They have recommended we limit our visits until he adjusts yet I feel horrible not visiting him for days. Please help or advise me how to deal with this heartbreak.