Last year my father suffered a stroke. Thankfully he is still able to talk, read and feed himself sometimes. My parents moved in with my sister and her family and they all care for my father. I live close by and visit regularly. They do not often ask me to help becauae I am dealing with the decline of my husband's health. However, my mother has asked me to sit with dad while she goes out for a break. I want so much to help but I am having great difficulty with the thought of taking care of his bathroom needs. I feel like such a bad daughter for it even being a problem for me. I am not close to my dad and his Alzheimer's (mild at the moment) makes him agressive. I want to get over this so I can help more in the future.