My sister in law took upon herself to be the driver to her doctors, and I thought this was great of her until I became the 24/7 caregiver ( I work from home). I decided that it would be best if I had a one on one with the doctor that recommended my mom drink ensure meal replacements. Her weight is back (berry,yogurt, protein, banana...smoothies and three square meals a day) and she has gained without that sugar product. The problem with that was she has thrown in the towel entirely because I wanted one visit alone. She has created an argument in front of my mother and now my mother hates her. I took her off a medication and her night terrors stop, she actually carries on conversations now. Why must pride be a factor in this? (doctor said pill could be stopped without withdraw issues (worth a try)). I am too friggin tired to deal with drama when Mom has improved. Maybe I should have put this in "whine". She has alzheimers. I am just venting.