My sister and I have lost both parents at an early age. Right after our mother passed, our grandmother started showing signs of Lewy Body dementia. We are the only family she has left and are responsible for her. She is at home with care. She sees things that are not there and has had APS called on us because of the constant police calls. She is very angry and vile to us. She is "there" enough mentally to where her comments hurt, but we try to keep in mind her mental state. We have exhausted every resource to help her and are running out of options. In her mind we are mean to her and say terrible things to her and on top of her verbal abuse, she threatens us with taking us out of her will and contacting lawyers. It doesn't matter what we say or do, we are always the bad guy. I'm just at a loss. This is affecting my mental and physical being. I can't help but think this mean creature is somewhat her true self amplified by the disease. Any advice would be appreciated. I am almost to the point of living her from a very, very, very far distance.