The brother and wife does not want to take care of Dad. They do not want him to live with them. I am on a caregiver burnout as I have been taken care of Mom, first, who passed on and now, Dad for past 9 years. I live with my Dad in last 9 years. I am 62 and retired, financially stressed, emotionally and mentally tired and felt like a load of responsibilities has been placed on my shoulders while my only sibling and wife enjoy their lifestyle, vacations and doing whatever they want to do in life for the past 9 years. Dad is well off financially and can afford caregiver but the sibling does not want to have to fork out Dad's retirement pay for caregiver. Dad got lost one day and things got changed to where I was forced by my brother and his wife who gave me orders like I was a slave or a person doing a job in my Dad's home. Dad has short term memory loss and is getting worse week by week. A part of me understands what they are doing to me but the other part of me wants freedom from responsibilities. I am considering moving out so that I can regain my life back, my sanity and freedom to do what I have putting off doing since 2007. I have given up my job, my social life and became a recluse as a live body to my Dad. As much as I loved my parents and gave my life to them for what they have given me in life, I felt like that I have paid my dues and want to move on in my life while I am still able to do them. I have also started my own small business to compensate for my retirement in the hope of regaining my financial freedom to leave the house. I will be on a Conference tour in May/June and have already given my brother and his wife heads up with my change of life activities. Then, my brother and his wife will have to decide what to do with Dad as they live just a block from where Dad lives. His wife does not work and stays home while he works full time. I have given them written suggestions of a caregiver or home care for Dad to give me time off from him. But, they have not responded back with any information on it. I am requesting a sound advise to handle these problems at hand.