My entire life, my mother has had to have everything be about her. She has had to be the best or "number one" to the point where if I succeeded, she tore me apart by telling me how low if an IQ I had etc.(my brother had to be number even above my father). She also has feigned illness or injury at times when she knew someone else was getting more attention and she has always denied things she has done (even if there is prof in her own handwriting) or made up stories about me to knock me down to other people. I am the youngest of 4 and the one now completely responsible for her. She lives under my roof with me and my young sons and the stress of her abuse and mental illness, which she denies and her Doctors ignore, has seriously affected my health and well being. She has said she will kill herself if the topic of an assisted living is brought up and she has no money at all. Her monthly income from SS and a pension is gone by the 15th each month because she is still supporting my older brother (who has a family and two incomes of his own). My siblings have each told me she CANNOT come and stay with them because they cannot live under the same roof with her and their spouses have said they would leave if she did. When she says hurtful things, she will walk away with an "evil grin" on her face very satisfied. I have pointed all of this out to her in a very soft manner explaining that I understood her pain of the loss of my father and asked why she would say these things to me or behave this way. She has stood in my hallway and jumped up and down like a child proclaiming that "I am number one! I deserve to be number one! I's my turn!" She does not have dementia or Alzheimers (been tested for both). All of my friends have told me they think she is the Devil. But she is my mother....I have no finances available to place her anywhere. I have nothing (not even insurance for therapy for ME) What do I do?