He has no personality issues and has no bad behavior. My DIL says my son is too busy and not responsible to aid in any care. She does not work but has made it clear this is not her family. She believes my young grandchildren will be confused by Papa's lack of any executive skills. He had EOAD. She has asked my son to take a "break" from us as he needs his family to come first. I don't want to create any marital problems for my son so we have just remained silent and alone.