Dad is having dementia. Don't want to go nursing home can't afford it. 21 yr old Daughter is having emotional prob on her own too not living with her dad. Her aunt is the POA wants her to take care of her dad but she can't handle it and doesn't want to. She doesn't know all the meds he's taking and her dad don't want to be in nursing home. No money to pay for it he had a vet benefits. Dad not taking his meds either. Can't be able to cook his own food anymore had his own breathing tank. Cant walk much. Slight heavy guy.
Daughter still in school and hv her part time job and keep checking her dad during her free time. Daughter just dont know what to do on her dad who starting to forget everything. And his renteng an apt. Daughter cant access his account so that she can pay his bills but he said his changing the password and he forgot what it is. Daughter is very emotionally stress on her dad and on her own too, boyfriend dumped her ..and her friends don't want to be with her anymore so shes really have her own prob too.
Her aunt who have a POWER OF ATTORNEY is 80 yrs old and wants her to take care of her dad but daughter refuses it. Bcoz she can't do it. she's so angry and depressed of the situation her mom an x wife of her dad dont know what to do either they both dont know where to ask on these situation. Dad's sister a POA doesn't know what to do either cos dad dont want to stay in nursing home he so stubborn. Daughter and dad can't get along much. Daughter can't decide what to do. Is it ok to just transfer him to nursing home against his will? So we want to know WHAT, WHERE ,HOW and WHO to ask about these matters. please help thank you