They live in and house and had 9 cat a dog and a bird the house was a mess. Cat poop and pissed every where. Now the house is up for sale after they both ended up in the hosp. Dad has heart issues and mom has dementia. We get in big fights he hates every one in the family. We want to go to Alabama for the birth of a child and we are struggling to find someone to care for them. I work and we have a lady come in everyday for care for mom from 9-1pm and then my other half work 3or 4 hours a day. Dad does help with bills. Are bills have dbl. for caring for both so it does help. And now he is b*tching about that. It would be 6 7 thousand for mom to be in a home dad can not take care of my by him self.