Dad with moderate dementia wants ice cream and cookies over and over all day. Doesn't remember an hour ago he had it just an . He can't be distracted and just keeps on and on until he gets it. Even if there isn't any, he still keeps asking, sometimes demanding. He is already overweight and adding lbs. An eldercare specialist told us to let him have whatever he wants. Does that sound reasonable? Not only is the grocery bill getting more and more costly, and can't be good for him, but Mom can't find clothes to fit him anymore. Any ideas?