Hi everyone...new to the group and look forward to sharing, offering and giving comfort to all of you!! We are about 5 years into dementia. So my question is: anyone have this issue? Dad, although still tending to his bathroom needs mostly alone, sometimes mom does find him calling for her only to walk in on a bit of a mess!!! So, into the shower he goes as she gets busy sanitizing and cleaning up after him. He is using wads of TP and it is becoming quite a frequent occurrence that the toilet is filling all the way up and almost over the top. Mom freaking out..any thoughts on how we can eliminate or reduce this overuse? Thought we had the answer with a bidet seat, which would be amazing, but he won’t know how to use but, like a child, will play with buttons and wind up breaking it!!! Now..mom plans on taking empty rolls and every morning, twirling 5 or 6 sheets around the end of roll and let him call for her if he needs more!!! Plumber there every two minutes due to clogging!!! Also thought about the disposable wipes but plumber says...they are def not good for septic system even thought it says that are ok to flush!!! Ugh...help if anyone has any good ideas for us!!!