He has moderate dementia. Mom is concerned with his weight gain. He prefers to eat lunch meat, cheese, crackers, fruit, ice cream and all sweets. Dad eats all the yogurt before Mom can have some or the rest of her Instant Breakfast she has saved for herself. He sneaks food when no one is in the kitchen or while Mom is sleeping because he knowsshe disapproves. But he takes 2 meatballs, one teaspoon peas at dinner so Mom fixes his plate with a bit more food. We bu yvery few sweets for them and Mom keeps fruit and extra boxes graham crackers etc. in her room, putting out days portion at a time.