Dad energy level has been getting less and less he has no energy to shave shower or take care of his every day needs. I am his Rep. Payee I have tried to talk with his doctor but he refuses to talk to me at all... and if I ask to go in with dad to his appointments he refuses so I have no chance at all to talk with him.... When dad does go to the doctor he presents himself well showers shaves but then when all is done he goes back to his doing nothing... I would like to see him be put in a Vet's Home where he can get the care he needs.... Can I as a son do anything legally for him? He has a Daughter from a previous marriage that would be willing to help as well... I notice of late he wheezes when he breathes he smokes heavy (told the doctor he quit) I would like to see him get some help.... I know if he finds out I would do this he would never speak to me again so I would need to be discreet about it ..... Please Help before its to late!!