Mom has lewy body dementia for two years. She is incontinent, non verbal, can't bathe herself or dress self, swollen ankles, bruises, trouble swallowing, very hard to get up off chair, left alone in house while he mows,etc, no air conditioning. Dad refuses to have Hospice assessment so a Vulnerable Adult Report was filed by Home Health Care. He thinks he can take care of her even though he is 86, has memory problems too. I have POA and have cared for them for last 2 years assisting them to stay in the home. They have home health care 3 times/week. Mom graduated from hospice in March, but now has shown decline. How can we get Mom to a facility? Frustrated with Dad's stubbornness. Need suggestions-worn out.