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He should be changed or at least checked every 2 hours. This does several things. 1. It keeps him dry, and if he is still using the toilet maybe some of those trips he will urinate or have a bowel movement. 2. It allows you to check his skin for any redness, any blistering even a mark from a fold in the material can later cause a problem. 3. Toileting him, or at least getting him up will result in a change in position and that can help prevent pressure sores.
Ask his doctor to order a "Sit to Stand" it will help with transfers. This can be used if he has some ability to support himself. If he has no ability to stand then you would ask the doctor to order a Hoyer Lift. Either of these pieces of equipment will help you transfer him safely. They may look confusing and difficult to use but are a game changer when it comes to being able to safely transfer someone. Safe not just for the person being moved but for the caregivers as well.
I buy on Amazon men’s shields they are like poise pads for women but protect more in front. They have a peel and stick strip under them and I would reinforce pull-ups with them. He was checked every 2 hrs and esp after meals and limited liquids after 7. He was more cooperative with that and ended up replacing less pull-ups during day. There are several helpful site like The Living room with Sam and Be light care site with Adria both excellant for helpful suggestions. Take care of yourself too as caregiving is hard work even for me as a retired Nurse. I would also recommend a book called Finding grace in the Face of Denentis and a now reading Emma Willis book too. You are not alone and counseling for caregivers is impt too❤️🙏🏻
My husband has had 3 strokes & needs to be changed every 4 hours. I use overnight pads inside his depends & just change those unless he has a bowel movement. Then most usually l have to change him completely. I did not have to change him as often after the first stroke, but he was able to tell me when he needed the urinal. Each case is different, so just be patient & reassuring that it is not his fault. It’s part of the effects of the stroke!
Yes, nursing home recommendations are every 2 hours but it would be like winning the lottery of the actually did that! My husband is bed bound at home now and I do check him and change him every 2-3 hours. I’m on sleep aids and anxiety meds due to the stress and worries of Alzheimer’s. So, I purchased overnight briefs and put 2 mats under him for night time. I also cut off his liquid intake about 6 PM except for when meds are taken. Most nights, these tactics work and I change him as soon as my caffeine kicks in! After that, I go on the 2-3 hour changes. Well wishes to you and your Dad.
In most nursing facilities every 2 hours is the recommendation to change ones adult diapers, so I would at least check your dads "brief" every 2 hours and if it needs to be changed then change it. And of course overnight you may want to check and change him only once so you can all get some sleep, but just make sure that your dad has several waterproof pads or chux under him to keep the bed as clean and dry as possible, as he will be soaked if you let him sleep through. And you can always add a heavy duty pad in his "brief" to help soak up more of his pee.
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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This does several things.
1. It keeps him dry, and if he is still using the toilet maybe some of those trips he will urinate or have a bowel movement.
2. It allows you to check his skin for any redness, any blistering even a mark from a fold in the material can later cause a problem.
3. Toileting him, or at least getting him up will result in a change in position and that can help prevent pressure sores.
Ask his doctor to order a "Sit to Stand" it will help with transfers. This can be used if he has some ability to support himself. If he has no ability to stand then you would ask the doctor to order a Hoyer Lift.
Either of these pieces of equipment will help you transfer him safely.
They may look confusing and difficult to use but are a game changer when it comes to being able to safely transfer someone.
Safe not just for the person being moved but for the caregivers as well.
Best of luck to you.
And of course overnight you may want to check and change him only once so you can all get some sleep, but just make sure that your dad has several waterproof pads or chux under him to keep the bed as clean and dry as possible, as he will be soaked if you let him sleep through. And you can always add a heavy duty pad in his "brief" to help soak up more of his pee.