Please help! My dad's not getting the best care he can could, but they have threatened to hurt me if I come back?

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Please help! My dad's not getting the best care he can could, but they have threatened to hurt me if I come back?

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Condolences on the loss of your Dad...we could all see how much you cared and wanted things to be different, and how much your dad and maybe the rest iof the family just wanted everything to be OK while he did what he had always done. I hope any good memories you have can come back to you and comfort you now; I know all too well the mix of emotions with this kind of difficult loss...the sorrow, the anger that the person could not have done better care and made better choices and still be with you/be there for you, maybe even the relief that suffering is over and could have been worse....just everything. Hugs...

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I am so sorry for your loss. I will never understand the nasty dynamics that can go on with trying to control a parent or loved one at the time of their passing. Some families do well, others just slash and burn each other, grub and grab for each dollar and manipulate a needy person. To me, it's one of the lowest forms of human behavior and it is heartbreaking. condolences.

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I think what will be really hard for me to get over, is the fact that my dad did not get to see my kids.
I was there when he was sick but rushed away when he was getting better. All I can do, is hang on to those memories that I have with him, they are all very nice.

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