He is in pain as I am is caretaker and can tell when he is in pain. I want him to be on hospice, he has been in and out of the hospital for 3 weeks now, and yesterday developed olive green fluid coming out of his J tube stoma. doc told me to stop the continuous feeding and he will come to the house this am and see him. i need to put him on hospice, and have no problem contacting them except for my mother who is his first guardian. It's been a year since he has rapidly been advancing thru the stages of alzheimers. Mom, now, is not in the right state of mind, and with me being a medical assistant, i feel i should take charge and make the right decision. It stated in his will, no means of artificial devices or anything to sustain his life. My health is slowly going down hill as well, how can i take care of dad if i am not well? Does anyone agree with me......?