It snuck up on us - virtually no symptoms until 2AM Monday morning, shaking, fever, high blood pressure. Today, he had a swallow study. They recommended a peg tube for feeding and informed us that he was aspirating when he ate. We hate to remove the feature of food in his life. He is 90, weak, and mentally unable to understand the change in body that feeding would bring. Any suggestions, warnings, words of wisdom are much needed and appreciated. We want Dad home with Mom, more time please!