This is so exhausting, my 75 YO dad has cancer in the brain and lungs, he had surgery for the biggest tumors in the brain and was supposed to do radiation for the smaller ones, then Chemo for the lung, with still only a 50/50 chance. After the brain surgery he refused to do any real PT, and fought going to the treatments, went to half. Then said I'm done. I just want to go home, he went home on Hospice. Once he got home he still would not try to get up and walk at all, and hardly ate and it got to hard on my mother, we tried for 3 weeks. We moved him to a beautiful hospice house. Now every time me and my mother visit all he talks about is going home, why is he here, he can't stay here etc, etc...makes my mother feel terrible that she couldn't do it, she usually leaves crying. He's not so bad with others or my sister. He thinks we are the main reason for him staying or going home. We constantly tell him it's not safe for him at home, Mom can't do it. You are doing the same thing here you would be doing at home, laying in bed watching tv. He has a big family and get lots of visitors. But I dread visiting because it's never just a visit, it's us constantly trying to explain why he can't go home. He still thinks he's going to get up and walk out of the place at some point.