Dad lives with me. He was admitted to the hospital 3 days ago after sliding off the side of his bed while being transferred from the wheelchair & hitting the floor on his behind. He instantly went into a rage and was screaming & using bad language. He would not let anyone help him up so after 15 minutes of this I called 911. They took him to the hospital where he was admitted for confusion. Now they've done numerous test on him to see if a new illness etc, could have caused his behavior.In the meantime I visited him & he is still mad. I discussed him coming home & he said he wanted to go back to the nh he just left 3 wks ago. He was abused there so I told him that he wasn't going back there he should come home because at least he's safe there. Oh Boy was he mad! I talked to the case manager & she said he can go anywhere he wants. He is competent, lucid and his mind is as clear as a bell. Oh yeah, how about the hallucinations & paranoia he goes thru all the time? Because a Dr that has seen him for 5 minutes says he's competent these people actually think he is. After I left the hospital a woman called from Elder Abuse to say she had an allegation of abuse against me. WHAT?? She came over and said I had pushed dad onto the floor, left him alone all the time and that my husband doesn't like him. After speaking to us she said she would be closing the case. It was clearly unfounded. Now they won't tell me where my dad is going because he told them not to. I am dads financial & medical POA . Now I read where he can cancel that. This man is not competent & because of Parkinson's he can barely speak more than 5 words at a time. I just want to walk away from this mess. I have been caring for him and have been his advocate when problems in the nh arise. Now to be accused of abuse is the last straw. I have a foster parent License and while I don't have any children in my care right now an allegation like this could ruin me. Has anyone else had to deal with this? I am the only one caring for a parent in my circle of friends so they have no advice to give except to walk away knowing that I have done my best for 4 yrs.