Mom died 7 months ago, I'm an only child. Dad had a massive heart attack during a catheterization, he is 86, it was my decision for them to operate......had triple bypass. We left CT where our kids & grandkids live....'very close to where we lived in a rented condo to move in with Daddy (getting rid of most of our 38 years worth of belongings. His doctors said he could no longer live alone. We knew he wanted to stay at home......he even asked me for us to live with him in Florida. So her we are witnessing what our adult kids have been telling us for the past few years. They could not handle being around my parents for more than 4 or 5 days........neither could we, but I guess were blind to Daddy's worsening symptoms. We New Mom had Alzheimer's because she told me & not tell Daddy until after her death. He was blind to her angry outbursts, etc. Maybe that's why we were blind to Daddy's worsening problems. I have fibromyalgia, asthma, both made worse with stress along with other health problems. My husband is unemployed now & looking. We are just at a loss as to handle this. I sort off tried to talk with him about it because he made me promise to tell him if he was showing any signs of dementia. I tried to get him to at least go to the doctor to talk about it & he just got angry. If he has Alzheimer's, he had said he would want the medicine that might help. We try not to set off his anger issues and try to have him do things he enjoys, like golf and playing cards with his friends, but that just makes him over tired and triggers his dementia symptoms. He doesn't sleep well some nights and takes occasional naps. My hubby, Mike, and I are new to handling this situation and our main goal is to make the rest of his life a happy, good life, like he did for Mommy for so many years. He deserves it. But how can we help him?