He's 85 and cognitive. My mom died of Alzheimer's October 2012. He still thinks nothing was wrong with her, though she was demented for at least 15 years, refusing help or to believe something was wrong with mom. He is going to adult health/daycare 3x a week for about 4 hours each day, nothing positive to say about it, and complains more and more about "those people." It makes me upset because my mom WAS one of "those people." Can I get him to be more charitable? Oh, on the last note, what a good Catholic man, who spouts off Go* D*** and prays the beads. It makes me sick and sad.