He is angry all the time at us to just leave him alone. He has a catheter all the time now but heart is good - no other medical issues. he just lays on the couch or in bed. will not participate in physical therapy or try to even sit up. eats little, drinks when he wants to but not a lot.
he is pleasant to visitors, but yells at his children to leave him alone.
i feel like maybe i should leave him alone if that is what he wants. the strain of arguing with him constantly to eat or move is just stressing both me and him.