Oldest is taking advantage of situation it's bad, oldest brother was given 2,000 dollars wasted it, did not pay mortgage and we are losing our house. I'm the one who lives with him and talks to him. I knew all his wants and it hurts me I can't keep my promise of paying the mortgage. Sisters fighting for the house when she don't even carry my dad's last name, she got married. My mother in the middle doesn't even know what to do. I feel we are all hurting her more and I dont want her to get sick from all this. What can I do? I know I could pay the mortgage but they don't want to give me a chance. He owns a house in Mexico that his brother thinks is his. He always told me not to let his brother keep that house. My Mother can't even get his retirement money until she's 60. We've got two more years and I'm afraid we'll lose the house.